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Wet Set Gazette, Winter Issue 2002

Excerpt from "Me Sign" by Barbara Granoff

Just 10 months old, Zachary already communicates to his parents when he is hungry and wants to eat and when he is finished eating. Seventeen-month old Ruby is fussy and lets her childcare provider know that her mouth hurts. From across the room, Barbara gently reminds her two-year old daughter, Shira, not to climb on the bars and to rejoin the group in circle time, all without using her voice.

So what do this preverbal baby, newly talking infant and active toddler have in common? They are a few of the growing number of hearing infants and toddlers who are learning to communicate with their parents, caregivers and teachers using American Sign Language (ASL). ASL—a language that uses signs, fingerspelling, gestures, hand shapes, motion and facial expression—was previously used exclusively by the deaf. However, recent studies indicate that by using signs in tandem with their spoken language, hearing parents can start the process of two-way communication with their babies as early as eight months and enhance the verbal language development of their babies in the process.

How does sign language help hearing infants and toddlers communicate? While most babies begin talking between one and two years of age, they understand and want to communicate much earlier. And, since babies have control over their hands long before they develop the fine motor skills required for speech, signing allows them to build on their natural tendency to gesture and enables them to express what they are not yet able to say. Research funded by the National Institutes of Child Health and Human Development revealed that signing children outperformed non-signing children in both language skills and IQ. The researchers, University of California professors Drs. Linda Acredolo and Susan Goodwyn, have uncovered other benefits of teaching sign language to babies, including: strengthening the parent-infant bond; reducing frustration for babies and caregivers; stimulating intellectual development; enhancing infant self-esteem; and providing a window into a baby's world.

Will signing with my baby delay his or her speech development? While many parents worry that using sign language may hinder their child developing verbal language, the opposite is true. A child's language development is actually enhanced through the use of sign language. Just as crawling seems to stimulate a child's interest in walking, signing seems to provide an excellent bridge to verbal communication.

In fact, research shows that signing children learn to speak sooner, and, by age three have developed language skills approaching those expected of a four year old. In her book, Dancing With Words: Signing for Hearing Children's Literacy, Dr. Mary Daniels explains how sign language can be used to improve hearing children's English vocabulary, reading ability, spelling proficiency, self-esteem, and comfort with expressing emotion. She states that a child's vocabulary development can be enhanced by simultaneously presenting words visually, kinesthetically and verbally.

Julia Hawkinson, mother of 17-month old Ruby and four-year old Jasper, became interested in signing when her daughter was 10 months old. "I wanted to avoid the normal frustrations parents experience when trying to communicate with a preverbal child," she says. "I felt as if I couldn't speak my infant's language and she couldn't speak mine. Using sign language has totally changed how I interact with my baby and preschooler."

When is the best time to start teaching signs and how do I begin? While the optimal time to begin signing with your baby is 6 - 8 months, it's never too early to begin learning about the concept of signing with your baby and never too late to start signing!

OC Family, April 2002

Excerpt from "Signed, Mom" by Sandy Bennett

Q: What prompted you to create ABC me Sign?

Barbara: To share the success I experienced with my daughter with other parents and children. I have a background in teaching the deaf so I've been signing with my daughter since she was about 6 months old. Other moms started asking me to teach them after seeing what was happening. My daughter was able to communicate with me at 12 months through sign language. And they were so amazed. So I started doing it informally...It was actually parent-driven, parents requesting it and because of my professional background.

Q: The workshop teaches parents and caregivers of children how to use American Sign Language to communicate with their hearing children. What is the age range of children that your program is best suited for and why?

A: Usually the best age to start signing with a preverbal child is anywhere between 6 and 9 months. But I don't believe a child is ever too old because the benefits are so profound, even with preschool-age children, that it's still really good even once a child is verbal.

Q: What are some of the benefits that come with using sign language with preverbal infants?

A: I think one of the biggest things is it reduces the frustration for the babies and the parent or caregiver. Infants actually want to communicate and have the ability for language prior to developing their fine motor skills for speech. They have the gross motor skills necessary to do the hand motions. So by enabling the children to communicate, it reduces the frustration. It creates a new awareness into their world and it accelerates their verbal language development. I think a lot of people oftentimes fear that if they teach them to sign that they won't become as verbal. And actually it's just the opposite. There is some research that followed children who were signing as toddlers until they were 8 years old. Those children had higher IQ scores than the non-signing children.

Q: What about with verbal children?

A: There's the most wonderful book out, called Dancing with Words: Signing for Hearing Children's Literacy, by Marilyn Daniels. And her whole thing is that preschool and pre-K programs should be doing it because it increases children's vocabulary, their reading ability, their spelling proficiency and their self-esteem. Standardized scores are higher; they're comfortable with expressing emotions. I also hear a lot from parents of boys who say it's a wonderful physical way for their son to be able to communicate. Instead of pushing another child, he can do the sign for "stop." And research says it strengthens the parent-child bond.

Q: In addition to providing participants "with a solid vocabulary of sign language," your workshop offers tips for the optimal times and situations in which to use it. What's an example of an optimal time for families to sign?

A: Mealtime is a perfect time to introduce the first few signs. When Shira was 6 months old, I would ask her while she was in her highchair, "Do you want to eat?" and I would do the sign to eat. And I'd give her a bite of food and then I would ask and sign, "Do you want more?" Then I would respond, "Yes." So "eat," "more," "yes," and "finish," you can do at mealtime so easily.

Q: Your daughter, who just turned 3, signs. Can you give a couple of examples of how you two communicate through signing?

A: Through songs, books and just in everyday conversation. Shira can sign and cry, so she can tell me what's the matter when she's really upset. She can eat and still talk to me with her hands. And I am able to remind her of her manners from across the room without having to use words. One of my favorite times to use sign language is whenever I leave Shira at preschool or ballet class. We kiss, hug and then say "I love you" with our voices and our hands. As I walk out of the class we both look back at each other and each hold up our "I love you" hands. It really is very special.

Costa Mesa Breeze, Feb. 14, 2002

Excerpt from "Reading the mind of a toddler" by Brian Martinez

Granoff teaches parents to use sign language to communicate with children

Barbara Granoff longed to know what her 6-month old daughter was thinking, so she taught her how to use sign language.

It worked so well that the Newport Beach resident now teaches other parents how to communicate with their hearing children before their vocal cords are even finished forming.

"My vision is to reach as many families as possible with the gift of signing, which holds immeasureable benefits for children," she said.

Granoff first learned how to sign while working as a volunteer for the Hawaii Center for the Deaf and Blind in Honolulu.

She founded ABC me Sign when other parents took note of her communication with Shira, her now 2-year old daughter, and wanted to learn it. The words taught in the workshops included "yes," "more," "finished," "eat," "up," and "hurt"—in adult American Sign Language. Most children inherently know how to sign "no."

Granoff teaches a two-hour training workshop just for parents and the "Mommy and Me Sign and Sing"—a class for which all proceeds go to various charities.

"Barbara is one of the most caring people I've met," said Mary Zollman of Newport Beach. "She instantly reached out to us and showed interest in raising money for Cystic Fibrosis."

Zollman's daughter, Olivia, suffers from the illness. Olivia was unable to verbalize as an infant due to pre-maturity. She signed from the age of 1 until she received a tracheotomy when she was 2-1/2. She signed to her doctors as she was going under anesthesia. The mother-daughter pair attend Granoff's classes for fun and for the effect it has on her now fluent verbal speech.

According to Granoff's research, sign language can improve hearing/speaking children's English vocabulary, reading ability, spelling proficiency, self-esteem, IQ and comfort with expressing emotion. Her work is guided by publications such as Dancing with Words: Signing for Hearing Children's Literacy, by Dr. Marylin Daniels. Several works by doctors Susan W. Goodwyn and Linda P. Acredolo have also been helpful.

Granoff also leads a support group for the children of parents with cancer and co-leads a Hoag Cancer Center counseling group for people with brain tumors.

Daily Pilot, February 17, 2002

Excerpt from "Without words" by Young Chang

Newport Beach mom teaches others to use sign language to communicate with their hearing babies

Even while recovering from a fever and a bout of pink eye, 2-year old Shira Strongin communicates that her doll—which she calls "baby"—needs to return to her home because she needs a toothbrush.

Through a mixture of words and sign language, Shira—who is not hearing impaired—says that the truck that rolls by every morning to collect trash scares her. It's too loud.

She asks whether she can eat her Valentine candy though it's still early in the morning.

She communicates "happy Valentine's Day" through signs but it turns out she doesn't know the sign for "Valentine's" so she's simply wishing people "happy day."

She even sings and signs "God Bless America."

Just shy of 3 years old, Shira and her mother, Barbara Granoff, who teaches sign language classes, use a mix of signs and speech to get almost all of Shira's needs met.

"We joke that Shira's our best selling point," said Granoff, a Newport Beach resident.

Granoff started teaching classes for parents and caregivers of hearing infants and toddlers almost two years ago. The mother, who has a bachelor's degree in special education, focused her education on teaching the hearing impaired and has taught in the U.S. and overseas.

After having Shira, she started signing with her hearing daughter without really being aware of the researched benefits signing has proven to have on hearing, preverbal children.

They'd sign and speak at home, in public, during various mommy-and-me classes.

"I had so many parents who had seen me signing with my daughter, and they wanted me to teach them. And once I started researching it, it was so profound to me," Granoff said.

Her classes—The ABC me Sign Introductory Workshop—are held once or twice a month in cities including Newport Beach, Costa Mesa and Irvine. Granoff arranges classes through the city in both Irvine and Costa Mesa and privately in Newport Beach.

Students start off learning the basic signs for words such as "more" and "finish," as well as the alphabet and some basic emotions.

"Signing lets babies express what they're not able to say," Granoff said. "Children have control over their hands before they have the fine motor skills necessary for speech, so signing lets them bypass the speech."

Research by speech and sign experts shows that teaching sign language to preverbal children speeds up the rate at which they can learn to speak, increases self-esteem, helps cognitive development and even deepens the bond between the caregiver and child.

Teaching sign language to verbal children has been proven to improve reading and spelling skills, the ability to learn the English vocabulary and, once again, to improve self-esteem.

For parents who worry that depending on sign language will hinder a child's verbal skills, Granoff cites research to explain that it's like the process of crawling before walking.

"Signing motivates the child to speak," she said.

Kiyo Nagatomi, a Costa Mesa resident who took Granoff's class last year, said using sign language with her then year-old daughter increased communication and decreased frustration.

"She'll sign when she wants to take a bath, when she wants food or drink, and she signs for Daddy," Nagatomi said. "The signs make things clearer. I think it cuts down on the frustration for babies."

Nagatomi's youngest is now 16 months old and named Tessa. Her oldest child is 6-year old Emma. Emma didn't learn sign language as a toddler, so Nagatomi's reasons for taking Granoff's class were twofold.

"To increase channels of communication with the baby and for the older one to interact with the little one," the mother said. "And studies show that the more language you give kids when they're little, the better they're able to communicate later."

When asked about the verbal differences between Emma as a toddler and Tessa now, Nagatomi said she's not sure whether it's a matter of personality, but Tessa has fewer temper tantrums and gets less irritated.

Granoff has had the same experience with Shira. When the toddler wants more food, she'll point to the fridge and sign "more." When she's prompted to attach a "please" to a request, she'll rub her tummy in circles and sign the word too. She'll sign "yuck" while simultaneously showing disdain for something she's eating, and she'll make the sign for "hurt" when something hurts.

"You don't know why the child's crying, and they don't have the words to tell you," Granoff said. "But this levels the playing field before they start speaking."

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